When I was pregnant with my first child, I thought I was doing everything right. I read the books, made the lists, packed the hospital bag, and decorated the nursery. I organized the clothes, washed them in Dreft, and researched all the best and in carseat and crib safety. I truly believed that labor and delivery would be the hardest part, and that once baby arrived, she would assimilate perfectly into our lives. What no one really prepared me for was the emotional toll of t